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Why Some Husbands Want Their

White Wives to Have Black Lovers

          It may seem strange that a white husband would want his white wife to have a black lover but here are at least 10 logical reasons.

1. As the libidos of white males continue to decline, husbands find that black men can adequately meet their white wife's sexual needs, often (they feel) without risk to the marriage. Husbands feel that their wives, who have gotten used to a certain social, cultural and economic lifestyle, will not leave them for a black man that doesn't share these characteristics.

2.  Second, many husbands (and after possibly seeing too much black-on-white porno) subscribe to the myth that all black men have large penises and that once their wives  get used to this they will not be sexually satisfied with a less well endowed and possibly more threatening white lover.

This seems to be confirmed by letters we get from women who warn that after having regular sex with well endowed black lovers, their husbands (or white men in general) can no longer satisfy them.

Plus, after she adjusts to this type of lover and her husband, who may no longer be able to sustain a firm erection,  may find that he can more easily enter her. 

Plus, once it is known that a white woman has a black lover, many white men feel they can't physically compete.

3.  Third, we know that black-on-white sex is one of the most popular Internet categories. Some husbands find it exciting to push their wives to have black lovers.  It may remind them of the black-on-white porno and their fantasies about having a wife who is sexually uninhibited.

4. Fourth, a white women may be attracted to a black lover because it's still somewhat taboo, and this includes an element of sexual excitement.

Some women find excitement to yield to a man that is stronger and more sex driven.

Risk is known to enhance sexual excitement. This may include the risk of pregnancy, however remote with effective birth control. This may also carry over to husbands who experience excitement in seeing (or knowing that) black men ejaculate into their white wives.

5.  Fifth, there may also be "bragging rights" for a woman -- having the services of a "black stud," or "black stallion." Sometimes older women feel a need to reaffirm their sexual desirability and sexual emancipation in this way. This is known to have a rejuvenating effect on some older women.

6.  Sixth, it appears that many black men can be aggressive in pushing a wife into new experiences.

Before one black lover took a white wife to one of his black clubs, he told her to take off her underwear.  Although it might seem to be humiliating to advertise her sexuality in front of this crowd, it also excited her.

7.  Seventh, and not unrelated, based on some our mail from black men it appears that there is a bit of a status symbol in being with a white woman -- especially a blond.

If she's married, he might boast to his friends that she prefers him in bed to her husband. At the same time he can also become possessive and protective, which can cause major problems. For this reason...

" Some husbands prefer to hire well-endowed 'professional studs' for their wives, black men who are safe and follow agreed on rules of conduct. " 

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8. Next are the male and female elements of humiliation. The wife may see her husband humiliated before others in that she prefers a virile black man to him.

The humiliation also can go the other way with husbands turned on by their wives "servicing" black men.

9. Many black men are quite happy with sex-only liaisons. Thus, the possibility of emotional involvement with its many problems is minimized. Some white women, especially when they marry older men simply want a black stud to regularly "get them off. "

10.  Finally, some husbands believe (occasionally accurately) that women can, in a sense,  become "addicted" to black sex -- becoming "black cock sluts." 

Once people know she has a black lover, she may feel brave enough to boldly proclaim her sexual liberation, or, more often her black partner may require her to wear a BCS t-shirt, which, in effect, announces that she's his property. .

Given the folklore about black lovers, a husband may even welcome this transition.("If my wife can handle a black bull, she's obviously" some kind of woman!")


However, STDs, are especially high in the black population and often a black partner will not tell a white women he is infected -- assuming he even knows. The latter is significant because individuals in some groups are the least apt to have themselves tested.


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